I'm going to own up, I know I promote myself as a coach and call what I do coaching but the truth is I HATE the word. Which is somewhat contradictory.
So I thought I'd confess..
I should tell you straight. I'm a liar, a cheat and a trickster. It's my job. Specifically, in the context of this blog you should know that I consistently change names, gender and the specific details of case histories in order to protect the identity of my clients. And in my sessions with people I do the same thing, telling stories about things that happened to "a friend of mine" or to myself. I'm not trying to mislead people. My stories always have a purpose. It's just not always the purpose you might think.
While I was travelling I met a few people who were fascinated by the fact that I am a hypnotist and wanted immediately to know if I could help them overcome a problem they had. Sometimes its quicker to demonstrate than to try and explain what I do.
Bryonny was in her twenties and told me she had a problem with cringing. She would remember things that had happened to her and feel ashamed and embarrassed. Sometimes she would lie awake at night remembering the same events over and over and making herself feel terrible.
I was searching through my book shelf today and came across this quote from James Ogilvy's "Living without a Goal". It's a good reminder to stop every now and then, take a look around and get clear about whether you're on the right track.
"Give up the goal of wealth. You probably have as much money as you need. Much more may bring more trouble, not less.
Sunday, Neil and Rachel were having a party for their son, my nephew, Hal. I was in charge of clearing the back garden and lighting a bonfire so marshmallows could be toasted. It rained until 1pm and then miraculously the sky cleared and the sun made up for the chill in the wind. I had been saving some well seasoned sprigs of wood for just this purpose and they snapped cleanly with a satisfying crack, promising a quick efficient burn.
Tulum gets better. We take the bus that the weary traveller lays on to the beach and spend the morning doing nothing in the sun. Martin stays on the beach in the afternoon and I head back into town to sort out some accomodation for claire and damian and do some laundry, buy some more fish! Later while cooking we get talking to a Slovenian couple and a couple of English girls, Willow and Jessica, making their way around the world. Martin has an early night and I end up spending the evening with a charming italian woman called Michaela who we first bumped
They say you can see 7 shades of blue in the carribean sea off the Yucutan coast. From the veranda of our beach cabana we practise counting them. The sky is clear, the sun merciless. The sea so warm its like taking a bath. The sand, soft, white coral. Our hammocks swing in the slight breeze, just enough to cool the sweat from our glowing bodies.
The Jungle has one more surprise for us before we leave Palenque. We spend the day packing up, taking it real easy. We head into town for provisions and then hang out at El Panchan til its time to catch the coach.
We arrive in Palenque at 8am and immediately notice a difference. More travellers in a confined space than we have seen since we got to Mexico. We are on the well travelled tourist route now.
After standing around looking dazed for 10 minutes we make out way to the Collectivo- the minibus that runs back and forth from Palenque to the ruins, stopping on the way at El Panchan. There is a mix of camping and cabanas there and it seems to be the place to go.
The overnight coach from Xalapa gets us into Palenque at 8.30 in the morning. It´s lush and green and I immediately feel right at home. It reminds me of Mwanza in the rainy season. There are more wazungu, sorry gringos, around than I have seen for a while and the locals studiously ignore us. We quiz a couple of travelers for details of the best places to stay and then head for breakfast. Plenty of fruit, fried plaintains and tamales. I´m going to like it here ;-)